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Tuesday, December 2, 2014

On Hearing of My Mother's Death Six Years After It Happened by @LoriLSchafer #review



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On Hearing of My Mother's Death Six Years After It Happened

A Daughter's Memoir of Mental Illness

Written by Lori Schafer

Genre(s): Biography, Mental Illness




It was the spring of 1989. I was sixteen years old, a junior in high school and an honors student. I had what every teenager wants: a stable family, a nice home in the suburbs, a great group of friends, big plans for my future, and no reason to believe that any of that would ever change.

Then came my mother's psychosis.

I experienced first-hand the terror of watching someone I loved transform into a monster, the terror of discovering that I was to be her primary victim. For years I’ve lived with the sadness of knowing that she, too, was a helpless victim – a victim of a terrible disease that consumed and destroyed the strong and caring woman I had once called Mom.

My mother's illness took everything. My family, my home, my friends, my future. A year and a half later I would be living alone on the street on the other side of the country, wondering whether I could even survive on my own.

But I did. That was how my mother - my real mother - raised me. To survive.

She, too, was a survivor. It wasn't until last year that I learned that she had died - in 2007. No one will ever know her side of the story now. But perhaps, at last, it’s time for me to tell mine.





Kat Green's Review


This true account of a girls struggle is nothing but inspiring. Lori had to struggle to survive as her mother became the victim of mental illness; her illness became Lori’s nightmare to.

The story itself is heartbreaking to read but what surprised me was the authors lack of self pity. Your heart goes out to the young girl who had to escape and ended up living alone in a car to avoid the horrors of home; facing other set backs along the way.

Another incredible element of this story is how you feel towards her mother; cruel at times. Only Lori explains her mental state in such a way you can’t fully hate her mother. You feel for them both. Those acts were not done out of malice but a illness she couldn’t control and no help was given.

It is a true account of mental illness from experience and Lori opens up some very painful memories. I’ve been inspired by this story; no matter what life throws at you in the end it is down to you. It is you that can change things around. I personally think Lori Schafer is a very brave and strong women. I’ve always had a loving home, yet still moan at trivial things, I shouldn’t.

This story made me realize it isn’t about money or material things that make you rich. What makes you rich is having a safe and happy place to just be. I’m sorry this wasn’t the case for her, but I hope life is better for her now.

Thank you for sharing your story.


Disclaimer: Book provided by the author free of charge in exchange for an honest review.

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